Week before “THE DAY”

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So, my lady it’s just a week far, countdown begins!!…… U must be all busy with your last moment tamping…. And here I am with a post, long enough to keep u busy and steal a minute from your schedule for me and JUST ME… !!!! Yeeee!!!! Here you go!!!

Congratulations on your big day!! Congratulations on being the first among all 5 of us to getting married… do guide us on our big day… ;)!!!! Just thinking about you getting married, and all I want to say makes me all teary ( in a best way of course). Your wedding day is all at once a “Very Big Day and Just the Beginning”.

I wish, I had some wise words of intelligence for your new era, but I don’t! Sooner you will be a Mrs.…. A WIFE, a DAUGHTER-IN-LAW, rather accountable for someone other than yourself….your life will change significantly!! And I am so very excited that I will be a part of it.

I am so happy for you. This day is bigger than the Graduation day, or a job recruitment, or the day when we became friends!! “THE MOST IMPORTANT DAY”.

We met in 2004 and became friends….as time passed our friendship became stronger but due to some misunderstanding we had many cold wars……and than in 2009 we went our own ways!!! But destiny planned something else and you came to my city and we regained our loosen bond…. Remember the talks we had in our college days about marriage and the plans we used to make for the wedding day!!!! That was so much fun!! We may not follow our plans but the bond we share is beyond words and you know, you are one of my closest friend.

We’re so different, yet so deeply connected that it doesn’t matter that we met rarely or we hardly share our sorrows. We don’t need it!!! So here are some great and exclusive things about you, which makes you special and dear for everyone around you.

You have a way of making people feel safe and understood; the ability to be honest and upfront yet supportive; the way you understand the unsaid things and react accordingly; the way you manage your problems and desiccation towards the responsibilities which is your biggest asset. And I adore you even after your marriage. I may not be all around you but still I miss you every time….

My advice for this week : feel every moment, wonderful or otherwise. When someone says something you don’t like just think “ This is my Life”; when you are overwhelmed and surprised with someone think “This is my Life” and when you take that man’s hand and declare ypur loyalty and commitment in front of everyone around; think “THIS IS MY LIFE” and smile…. 

“ No matter what’s happening around; you know how to make it favorable”…. Love you my friend and will always do…. be “EXPENSIVE”!!!

Enjoy yourself, laugh, and take every moment for what they create: the beginning of the next part of your life.

A WISH

Today is a dream realized from years past, The red dress, the wedding ring, the promise of a love that lasts.

Today is the beginning of a journey the two of you now share The vow to love, honor, and cherish now seen in the rings you wear,

But tomorrow, tomorrow you will wake as husband and wife, Where the person next to you is yours for life,

And so my wish to you both is that when you wake each day, You will turn to each other with the same look you share on THE DAY.

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2 thoughts on “Week before “THE DAY”

  1. loved this piece of writing , so positive full of life.

    now u have raised lots of expectation about ur writing please write something for me

  2. A boy………………(+)…….A girl…………….. (=)……..Single Soul
    This is My Life!!… (+)……This is My Life!!…(=)……. This is My Life!!

    Don’t know whether below loving / fading story is relevant to above emotional article or not but at least it has similarity in terms of purest emotions but different in terms of intensity…….recommended to read it in “sacred” place….

    A short height boy is sitting on a bed in a well arranged drawing room of his distant aunty…………due to his short height his legs are simply hanging in air……….not able to touch the floor………suddenly a lady with infant girl crosses the room at faster pace….…but he managed to looks towards that innocent baby……..he smiles for a while……..suddenly the minute seems longer than usual…………he is feeling really bored as no one here is of his age group……so he starts to play with the ply of the table placed in front of him………he is waiting eagerly for his mummy and for his favourites thing that is sweets as a prasad………He loves to eat sweets as much as possible because he simply loves it………….. and he born in 80’s, where a child have only few interests study, games, movies, eating etc…….no internet…..no mobiles…..no cool gadgets…..no social networking……no confusions…………no ego……but…… purity in action……… purity in mind…………purity in heart …….….purity in soul………….For overeating of his favourites things i.e. sweets and chocolate he faces the anger of his parents……….he doesn’t mind as he is happier with his sweet desires…….

    Suddenly a “fairy tale” girl enters in the room…..the girl has beautiful eyes and long hairs wearing his tunic uniform and holding a bag over his shoulder…….may be taller than that boy……suddenly they both looks towards each other…..both are feeling anxious…… both are trying to identify each other……..but this may be their first meet….or may be their first eye contact….or may be both are strangers……or may be both are introverts……so there is no exchange of words……suddenly girl start moving towards her room……and boy stops looking at her…..suddenly boy moves his head up and looks towards the direction in which girl is going…..….at the same moment the girl turned back and looks towards the boy……both have the eye contact again……..same thing happens three-four times consecutively……both are not able to resist to see each other……suddenly both feels shy……again no exchange of words……only exchange of pure emotions………both are innocent……..they don’t know…..…..that later this moment will become…….“A moment to remember”……..“An unforgettable moment”…………..for rest of their life……….suddenly the boy’s mom calls him to let go to their home……….at the same instant some other person call that girl for lunch………Oh!! Finally the boy hears her loving name…………

    My eyes are now feeling the moisture so I have to stop for a while………are you feeling the same…..I hope so…….then allow this moisture to wash out your sadness…….…..

    Disclaimer: all words are mine & not copied from anywhere………..if there is any similarity then it is just a coincidence….….

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